Family
FACT - Seizure disorders affect not only the person with epilepsy, but all of the family members living with that person as well.
Many tensions are created within the family if members do not co-operate in dealing with epilepsy. Often, mothers will want to talk about and gather information about epilepsy, while fathers tend to avoid the issue. Siblings may also have trouble coping as more and more attention is given to the adolescent with epilepsy. These problems, if left unaddressed, can cause conflict within the family. In order to limit these frustrations, the entire family must acknowledge the stress and find a way to deal with epilepsy as a whole.
Financial problems may also develop if the family does not have a health plan and more of the family's income is needed to purchase expensive antiepileptic medication. Strain increases for the entire family as previously purchased items are limited or entirely cut out of the budget.
The unpredictability of seizures may cause parents to become overprotective. This can be a problem if you - in the process of becoming an adult - are prevented from making independent decisions. If you have tried speaking with your parents about your concerns and still feel frustrated, you might want to ask your doctor for help. However, parents might have reason to worry. Be aware of the possible dangers of all your actions.
Your relationship with your family members has a great impact on you. Don't shut them out just because you feel they will not understand. Remember that they cannot know your concerns if you don't discuss your concerns with them.
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